DON'T MARRY THAT WOMAN! #2



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During my Bible study, I have noticed most of the fathers had strict rules about who their sons married. As a matter of fact, sometimes the father selected the woman that their son married. 

There were times when the sons disobeyed their fathers and God. They boldly chose the woman they wanted to marry. 
 
Today, I am sharing scriptures that discuss disobedient men and the consequences of their decision.







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Rembrandt's depiction of Samson's marriage feast

 


LIFE LESSON:



SOME DISOBEDIENT MEN IN THE BIBLE


SAMSON


JUDGES 13: 2-5




Now there was a certain man from Zorah, of the family of the Danites, whose name was Manoah; and his wife was barren and had no children. And the Angel of the Lord appeared to the woman and said to her, “Indeed now, you are barren and have borne no children, but you shall conceive and bear a son.

Now therefore, please be careful not to drink wine or similar drink, and not to eat anything unclean.

For behold, you shall conceive and bear a son. And no razor shall come upon his head, for the child shall be a Nazirite to God from the womb; and he shall begin to deliver Israel out of the hand of the Philistines.”

  

JUDGES 14: 1-3, 15




Now Samson went down to Timnah, and saw a woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistines.

So he went up and told his father and mother, saying, “I have seen a woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a wife.”
Then his father and mother said to him, “Is there no woman among the daughters of your brethren, or among all my people, that you must go and get a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?”

15 But it came to pass on the seventh day that they said to Samson’s wife, “Entice your husband, that he may explain the riddle to us, or else we will burn you and your father’s house with fire. Have you invited us in order to take what is ours? Is that not so?

 
JUDGES 15:1-2


1 After a while, in the time of wheat harvest, it happened that Samson visited his wife with a young goat. And he said, “Let me go in to my wife, into her room.” But her father would not permit him to go in.

Her father said, “I really thought that you thoroughly hated her; therefore I gave her to your companion. Is not her younger sister better than she? Please, take her instead.”



JUDGES 16: 4-5, 18-22, 30



Afterward it happened that he loved a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.

And the lords of the Philistines came up to her and said to her, “Entice him, and find out where his great strength lies, and by what means we may overpower him, that we may bind him to afflict him; and every one of us will give you eleven hundred pieces of silver.”


18 When Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, “Come up once more, for he has told me all his heart.” So the lords of the Philistines came up to her and brought the money in their hand.
19 Then she lulled him to sleep on her knees, and called for a man and had him shave off the seven locks of his head. Then she began to torment him, and his strength left him.
20 And she said, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!”
21 Then the Philistines took him and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza. They bound him with bronze fetters, and he became a grinder in the prison.
22 However, the hair of his head began to grow again after it had been shaven.

30 Then Samson said, “Let me die with the Philistines!” And he pushed with all his might, and the temple fell on the lords and all the people who were in it. So the dead that he killed at his death were more than he had killed in his life.


SOLOMON  



DEPICTION OF ONE OF SOLOMON'S WIVES

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LIFE LESSON:

SOLOMON DISOBEYS THE LORD




1 KINGS 11: 1-4, 9-13, 33



1 But King Solomon loved many foreign women,as well as the daughter of Pharaoh: women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites—

2 from the nations of whom the Lord had said to the children of Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they will turn away your hearts

after their gods.” Solomon clung to these 
in love.

3 And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart.

4 For it was so, when Solomon was old, that

his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the Lord his God, as was the heart of his father David.
5 For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians,and after Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites.


9 So the Lord became angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned from the Lord God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice.

10 And had commanded him concerning this thing, that he

should not go after other gods; but he did not keep what the Lord had commanded.
11 Therefore the Lord said to Solomon, “Because you have done this, and have 
not kept My covenant and My statutes,
which I have commanded you, I will surely tear the kingdom away from you and give it to your servant.
12 Nevertheless I will not do it in your days, for the sake of your father David; I will tear it out of the hand of your son.
13 However I will not tear away the whole kingdom; I will give one tribe to your son for the sake of My servant David, and
for the sake of Jerusalem which I have chosen.”

 

33 because they have forsaken Me, and worshiped Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, Chemosh the god of the Moabites, and Milcom the god of the people of Ammon, and have not walked in My ways to do what is right in My eyes and keep My statutes and My judgments, as did his father David.






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Horace Vernet: 
Jeremiah on the ruins of Jerusalem (1844)




The Lord gave the prophet Jeremiah 
rules about marriage. He was also given 
the prophesy of what would happen to disobedient Israelites. The scriptures 
below only discuss the rules for marriage.




  

LIFE LESSON:



RULES GIVEN TO JEREMIAH





JEREMIAH 16:1-3





1 The word of the Lord also came to me, saying,

“You shall not take a wife, nor shall you have sons or daughters in this place.”

For thus says the Lord concerning the sons and daughters who are born in this place, and concerning their mothers who bore them and their fathers who begot them in this land.

















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